Lytle advises: “In a love reading, what is being offered to you is more of the same old, same old, and the time is right to break old behavior patterns that aren’t serving you well. ![]() While this may be a hard reality to accept, continuing on with this relationship will bring nothing positive to either of you. In a love reading, the Four of Cups appears as a warning that your relationship is losing its magic. “When the Four of Cups appears, it is wise to examine opportunities that come your way - especially in the area of love and relationships - but it is likely that you have a good reason to reject them,” Lytle explains. It’s possible these opportunities simply hold no interest for you, or that you’re feeling overwhelmed by what you already have on your plate. However, you’re constantly turning them away. This card in the upright position is a sign of new opportunities flowing in your direction. ![]() As such, the life of someone represented by the Four of Cups often lacks excitement and happiness. These people typically take things for granted, often missing the point of what could and should be valuable experiences. “A magical hand offers a golden cup to the figure on the card, but it is clear that they want nothing to do with it.” “This card is full of resistance,” says Lori Lytle of Inner Goddess Tarot. This is someone who lacks the motivation to pursue happiness, resulting in missed opportunities that would otherwise fulfill their needs and desires. The Four of Cups as a person is dissatisfied with their current state of being. His deep state of meditation prevents him from noticing or caring about these offerings. On the ground directly in front of him lie three gold cups, while another is held in the air next to him by a floating hand. Despite his fertile, calm surroundings, his expression is glum. In the Rider-Waite deck the Four of Cups depicts a man sitting in contemplation under a tree at the top of a mountain. Seize your chance Visual Elements and Symbolism Instead of dwelling on your problems, focus on the solutions. The answers to your troubles are right in front of you. The universe continues to offer you opportunities, but you don’t always recognize them. The Four of Cups represents the human tendency to take things for granted. The Four of Cups Tarot Card’s True Meaning: Love, Health and Money 1 The Four of Cups Tarot Card’s True Meaning: Love, Health and Money. ![]() I see this as well, faithfullness, a trait nobody accociated with this card! I can go to extremes- not wanting to meet new men and not even go out where there is a posibility of meeting new men,I'd rather completely focus one weekend for my boyfriend instead, I am a bit too closed off when other men are concerned. I would hate to think that I am self absorbed and arrogant and that I dont see what a good thing I have, I would really dislike myself if I were like that,so I hope the 4 of Cups for me is pointing to what I have described, because if it is me taking him for granted I would be really dissapointed in myself as a person. ![]() The other word for the card is Luxury,and I do feel my boyfriend is a luxury to have He is an amazing man, and any woman would be so,so,so lucky to be with him. It wasnt said with a lot of emotion or passion but like I said,it is not because I am not feeling those things but I am a bit numb to experiencing emotions because of what is preocupying me. I tried to make sure to still tell him I care and that he means to me, but I must admit it didnt sound uthfull. It's almost like I am numb from these distractions to feel feelings, does that ring true with the card? Sadly I can not avoid being distracted by my daily obligations, but I will now try extra hard to not let myself go so into them that I dont have time to feel the love for my boyfriend. I dont like doing these obligations but there are people that I need to be with during the day or other stuff I really dislike doing and in the running around to complete my daily duties I get,as I said, distracted from THINKING about my feelings. I can see it, but just the problem is, as I said- I have distractions in the form of obligations sadly. Yes,completely! Except the ''you can't see it part ''.
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